by Vivian Hoffmeister, Administrative Assistant for U!Shine
Well, it’s that time of year again-- I don’t know about you, but I get a thrill from drafting my New Year’s Resolutions every January. There’s something about the possibility of becoming a better, more well-rounded person in the upcoming year that energizes and inspires me.
Of course, unless I don’t fulfill my goals… then I’m just left feeling slightly ashamed and disappointed in myself.
To save us some disappointment, we need to learn how to set healthy and productive habits for ourselves.
One semester, I set a goal for myself to to run a half marathon. In 3 months. I’m a very casual runner (I get my exercise in other ways, OKAY?), so I was trying to go from running 5-6 miles a month to be able to run 13 miles in one day. Crazy. No wonder I didn’t achieve it-- it wasn’t realistic at all.
To save us some disappointment, we need to learn how to set healthy and productive habits for ourselves. If we can learn to set goals that are realistic, we can increase the likelihood that we achieve them, and our self-confidence and self-efficacy rises. Win win!
I want to introduce you to a concept called “WOOP”. It stands for: wish, outcome, obstacle, plan, and it’s designed to be a guide to take yourself through the process of realistic goal-setting:
Ask yourself: what is it that I wish to accomplish? Pick something that’s challenging, but that you could reasonably accomplish in 4 weeks.
What is the best possible outcome? How would your life look if you accomplished and stuck to this goal?
Imagine how that would make you feel. Dwell on that positive feeling for a few minutes. What other implications would this new habit have on your life?
What is your main obstacle right now? Is it a bad habit? Is it your schedule? Is it an irrational belief about yourself?
Dwell on your obstacles for a little bit.
Now, make a plan to avoid those obstacles. Do you need to rearrange your schedule? Do you need to limit your time spent with certain people?
Try to think in if/then statements: “If I run into an obstacle, then I will respond in this way so that I can stay on track.”
Sounds pretty idealistic, right? Let’s go through an example to make it more tangible:
Wish: I want to be able to run a 5K without stopping.
Outcome: The best possible outcome is that running becomes a part of my weekly workout routine. It’s something that I can alternate with my other exercises; it’s something I can do with my dog; it’s a way to catch up on podcasts.
Obstacle: My main obstacle right now is that I can’t seem to find a good time to run… It would be convenient to do it after work, but I’m usually exhausted by then. Perhaps I could squeeze it in before work, but I’m having trouble figuring out how much time I would need to give myself to eat breakfast, drink water, and come home with enough time to shower before leaving.
Plan: I’ve decided to try to run when I get home from work. The weather will have warmed up, and the dog will be itching for a walk. If I get home and I feel too tired to run, I will drink a bit of water, eat an energizing snack, and then head out for a run without thinking too much about it. Maybe I’ll have my clothes and shoes already set-out for myself!
Your plan becomes more tangible if you can already predict your obstacles.
You can implement these principles to any area of your life: from health, to relationships, to academics. The principles employed through the WOOP process such as contingency management, implementation intentions, and mental contrasting are backed by science, and they work.
Be sure to check out the WOOP website and app to help you set goals and (more importantly) reach them!